
If you were to speak with Marisa or myself and ask us how the last few months have been going one of us would tell you that more recently I have been working hard, pushing towards each subsequent milestone at work, Wolfenstein is coming along nicely, and Marisa has been enjoying her time at her newer job at the Hospital.
Things have been rather busy with each weekend being pretty full with things to do, and each day having its own goals and tasks to be accomplished. We had pretty much decided to wait on the idea of purchasing a home here in Madison, last weeks headlines all over the news proving our intuitions correct...looks like the housing market is going to take a bigger step down before it begins any kind of upward climb.
We figure it is cheaper to continue to rent and save a considerable portion of our income rather than sink it into a home which might only go down in value for the next year or two. I am sure there are plenty of folks who could give me some kind of logical mathematic reasoning for buying a house now instead of waiting, tax write-offs, blah blah blah, but common sense tells me that there is no better stability in this market, and in the video game industry than a savings account.
I can still recall my mortgage banker trying to convince me to do a zero down loan, and then hearing a financial adviser tell me to switch my mortgage we had in Cleveland over to an interest only loan about 3 months before Marisa quit working and went to Case full time for two years.
This guy had it all figured out, if I went to an interest only loan, then I would have lots of money left over each month to invest in his recommended stocks, as well as money to upgrade all those things that needed work in the house. Because of course your home is never going to go down in value...years and years of increases in home values had proved it. Something in this smelled bad however...and of course after doing some research I found out it was going to cost me $2k to refinance, and guess who was going to get some $$ from that transaction? You guessed it...the financial adviser. Not to mention I could not understand the logic of having this ridiculously large amount of debt just looming over our heads, and never once paying down the actual debt. I really wonder just how many people were duped into throwing aside common sense to go on the advice of these so called experts.
Of course my home did go down in value, and we sold considerably lower than what we paid for the home, not to mention all the painting, repairs, carpet, floor refinishing etc. we did.
Needless to say I am totally baffled by everything that has gone down in the financial sector these past months/weeks. I cannot begin to say that I fully understand the whole of it, but having gone through my own home-buying experience during the "boom" and then selling during the "bust" I can see first hand where it all came from. I am just thankful Marisa and I erred on the side of caution.
Enough of that crap, I hope that doesn't sound like I think I am some kind of fiscal genius, god knows I am not...more like just really shocked by what has happened.
So this past weekend I was happy to be given a nice long 4 day weekend by Raven. The team has been working pretty hard as I said, and Raven and Activision decided we needed a little break to get some rest and come back fresh.
It timed up really nicely with my trip home to hang out with my family for Jeremy's Bachelor Party weekend. I caught one of those teenie tiny jets out of the Madison airport and flew into Cleveland where I was picked up at the airport by Jeremy.
These tiny jets drive me nuts, there is so little space in them and wow can some people prove to be exceptionally rude on them.

It was nice to have the 30-40 minute car ride to my parents home alone with Jer. We don't seem to get too much time to talk, and he was filling me in on things with his new job at Swagelok. It sounds like he really enjoys working there, and I feel good knowing my little bro is working at the same company as Andy Curtiss. Both Andy and Jeremy are engineers, with Andy having been at Swagelok for about 10+ years now. I can still recall picking Andy up at work to go out drinking, him wearing the same kind of outfit Jeremy was wearing when he picked me up.
Here we are in the car riding home, goofing off...

We arrived home a little later where my mom was busy getting the place cleaned up and ready for a full house of company for the weekend. I think I have become convinced as I get older that family and friends are perhaps the most important things we could have going in our lives, and getting together with my family proves it true each time, even though we all talk really loud, and sometimes we even yell at each other in our goofy way.
Here's my dad with his first grand-daughter...

Jer and Norah on the couch, Norah rocking the Browns PJ's she loves so much.


Jim got in later that night, and we all just sat around catching up on what everyone has been doing. I think everyone was pretty tired, we mostly headed off to bed early and for the first time since I can recall I got into one bed, while my brother Jim got into the opposite bed in the same room. It was a really surreal moment reminding me of all the years the two of us shared a bed while growing up. Sometimes I wish I could have understood how important that time was.
I wish I had done a better job of appreciating all of it.
Sorry this post is so sappy...sheesh.
Here are some more photos from the next morning, we all got up early and got ready to go golfing, which I had not done in 4-6 years...I think. Gosh I have no idea how long it has been really.
Jeremy and Kenny his best man


We went and played at Wicked Woods out in Russel, perhaps the nicest "cheap course" I have ever played. Of course, I haven't played alot...the first holes were pretty rough because I was feeling pretty stiff and not very confident in my abilities to, uhm...hit the ball in a forward direction.

There weren't enough guys for complete foursome's so we had a couple groups of three, I was paired up with my cousin Chris and Cap'n Curtiss. Here they are sipping on some of the goodies Jimbo had ready for us.


Some more photos from the trip, Uncle Howard and my cousin Scott having a good time, we followed the two of them and Uncle David...


Chris pretty much carried Andy and I through the back nine, for some reason the breakfast of Beer and Beer seemed to handicap my already stellar game...oh did I mention that we got a lunch of Beer at the turn...

This picture pretty much sums up Jeremy's condition after 18 holes of golf, he was hilarious in that ridiculous hat.

After we headed back to Mom and Dad Elek's place and pigged out on brats, pasta, and salad. Of course there was plenty of beer and booze as well. Jim handed out all the prizes for the typical golf outing shenanigans, and we played a couple games of Texas Holdem.


Andy and Jeremy "feeling no pain."

The next morning we were all pretty darn tired, I think you can tell everyone was up pretty late and got the minimum rest needed to operate.



Of course the shining ray of brightness in the morning was Norah, who seemed to have gotten a really great night of sleep. Here she is getting another bath in the kitchen sink...

Of course things came to an end entirely too soon, but I have to say I was happy to get back home to Marisa and Bailey as well. I miss my family and friends, but I always get really anxious when I have to fly out of town and leave Marisa behind. Maybe it has something to do with that two years of leaving via jet...who knows.
So that was the weekend in a nutshell, we are returning in 2-3 weeks for the rest of the festivities, so hopefully we will get to see some of you then.